48. Arjava & Phyllis: Free to Let Go
The constellation session with Hellinger freed Arjava from a sense of obligation towards Usui. Arjava reflects on Phyllis's apology – revealing strong parallels in their words and philosophy.
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Arjava reflects on the constellation with Bert Hellinger, where Usui simply walked away – content and complete. This freed Arjava from feeling he had to do anything for him.
He shares his life philosophy: always give your best. René points out that Phyllis Furumoto expressed the same idea – literally – in her apology*. When asked what he would say to her if she walked through the door now, Arjava suggests a hug and to "start new." He adds that he avoids hypothetical scenarios, preferring instead to respond spontaneously to any given moment.
*See Videos 'Apology' and 'The four agreements' on https://sandbox.reiki-conciliation.org/66-steps-on-the-path-to-reconciliation/.
Who knows, probably I would just go and give her a hug and say: Okay, let's leave all this behind and start new.