15. Too Close to Teach?
Teaching partners or family? Arjava chooses romance over teaching to preserve personal boundaries. The conversation unpacks taboo boundries and the question of ethical conduct.
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Arjava speaks candidly about ethical boundaries in teacher-student dynamics, sharing how he turned down his future wife as a Reiki student because of his romantic feelings for her. Instead, he encouraged her to learn from another teacher to ensure an authentic, independent experience. His story highlights the importance of integrity and clear roles in spiritual teaching.
The conversation explores teaching close relatives or partners. Using his own children as an example, he says he'd have no hesitation teaching them Reiki, as long as roles and intentions are clearly defined. It's all about awareness and respect for personal dynamics.
I don't want to be your therapist, I don't want to be your teacher." [I'd rather be your lover.]